The people looking for women like me

They are indeed a varied lot. A strange group in many ways. A lot of men looking for a chat or camming session while they're hiding in their den, their wives ignorant of hubbies little hobby.

I don't mind that kind at all really, I just hate it when they're there pretending to be serious!

I can do a little chat now and then and pretend to be someones slave for a little while. It's fun, makes me wet, if the other person is able to express themselves in writing it can be great.

A lot of the people on sites like collarme seem to live their life online. I don't. Nothing is so revealing as somebody who's available online around the clock.

Unfortunately a lot of rather pathetic men hides behind the Dom, Domme or Master title they award themselves. Quite a few men who have failed in all relationships before and somehow manage to delude themselves into thinking if they can only find the completely compliant woman, a slave, then everything will be fine.

So what do they do? They go on collarme or another bdsm dating site, claim to have tons of experience, and hope to latch on to some girl who dream of submitting to them.

Too few dominants understand that it is not about barking orders like drill sergeants. To few dominants understand that women are still seduced by quiet refinement, intelligence and sensitivity.

Too few dominants are actually able to hit what they're aiming for, when they're wielding a whip or a cane.

Too few dominants have even a minimum understanding of anatomy to understand where on the body to use what implements. Do not hit the stomach or kidneys with bats, paddles or other blunt, heavy objects. It's dangerous.

On the soft belly, use the fine, cutting whip or cane. It hurts more stings badly, leaves nice welts and heals quickly.

Paddles are for soft, fleshy behinds!

Another problem frequently encountered: people who do not understand that to have someone living with you implies having a relationship way beyond the "I keep you in a cage and take you out to beat you and fuck you and then I put you back in cage" type imagined lifestyle. IT DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT in the real world!

Also, having a slave girl living with you costs money! If you are a poor man forget it! You are not going to find that girl who will work and give you all her money and then take care of your house and needs, sexual and otherwise. The only possibility of finding that is if you find someone who is severely intellectually challenged! Come to think of it so are you if you believe that nonsense.

Also something that is important to me personally. I detest idiots and republicans. I can tolerate and even enjoy an old fashioned republican, but the modern variety are simply idiots, so if you like Sarah Palin or ever voted for Bush or think Glenn Beck is wise, please stay far away from me.